“You’re lucky you are cute.  If you weren’t, you wouldn’t be sitting here next to me.” I can’t tell you how many times my husband has said that to me over the years.  While I feel like he is mostly joking, deep down I can’t help but think that there must be some truth to it.  Lucky for me, he still thinks I am cute at age 65.  Lucky for me, he likes chubby women!  I’ve even asked him, “What…